Distinction vs Setting Adapter

Distinction vs Setting Adapter DefinitionsAdjusting - Some changes and you're on the right track. Minor changes to reflect the changes, while most of your life and circumstances remain same.Adapting - Something very successful, and will not be able to survive when a major change within yourself, and in most the areas of your life. ComparisonsWhen your child goes off to college when your teen changes diesWhen your department c. when your company is hostile takeoverWhen your husband takes the physical form and moves from a treadmill in the living room c. when the husband has a lover and moves in your place to lakeExampleADJUSTING: A chameleon suits. When you are in a green leaf, green. When you switch to a brown branch, which becomes brown. This is a small correction, changing the color of his skin. ADAPTATION: A tadpole adapt. To be able to live on earth, it must lose its tail and gills, grow and start using your legs lungs. We must lea to breathe air, not water. SETTING: Mary has been an adjustment to make. She had moved to town. He had to lea a new route to work, meet new neighbors, lea the location of hospitals, shops and gas stations, and get used to electric stove instead of a gas stove. ADAPTATION: Letitia moved to the United States to Russia. He had to lea a new culture and new language. Adjustment needed: Ben divorce. Although it was not dating her, he fell in love with his love of high school. When he divorced, began her boyfriend, dating, was in the same house, had custody of her two children, has maintained the same work, the place on the lake, and has maintained his network of friends. NECESSARY ADJUSTMENTS: Tina's divorced from her husband. It took most of the assets of the couple and left with all his debts, if the file has been forced to declare bankruptcy. Because of social organization, he moved in, he lost many friends. At the same time, her last child left for school, has reduced his mother died, and has developed breast cancer. SETTING: You know you can do. If you do not want that in the month of May. FITNESS: You have a certain sense is not what we want to deal with changes it.Key PointUnderstanding adaptation, it is necessary to assist in the transition, which is often more like a metamorphosis. It may seem that grow wings! When you face a situation of adaptation, you think, "Things have changed." When you face a situation of adaptation, you think, "I will never be the same." BenefitsMuch is to adapt. The major changes of life, look for great things to leave behind, and lea new ways, sometimes new ways of "being." It may be as difficult as leaing to breathe air instead of water. The adjustment requires a strong capacity for emotional intelligence, which can be leaed. Related distinctionsYour discuss new laws with a big c. The new Southe drawl laws speak only in Russian, you have a new baby boy or your wife gives birth to quintuplets, you break your ankle in a car accident or lose your legs in a car accident about the author? Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach & Consultant and author of? Midlife Dating Manual for Women? . Coaching individuals through transitions. I offer coaching, Inteet courses, teleclasses and ebooks around emotional intelligence. We train and certify EQ coaches. Mailto: sdunn@susandunn.cc for more information on this fast, convenient, comprehensive and without a residence. For free EQ ezine, e-mail and save me? Ezine? for the object.