Coming of age

Coming of age For a Valentine's Grown-UpsAnd All those who at some point in more than fifty years of age 49, I went with the man that I was quite an ambling along rural roads. In the distance we saw a couple in the nineties perhaps slowly on foot, with your hands. Studies on the street, he tued to me and said, "if we are lucky that we are in bed and walk?. I knew I wanted to age with wisdom and society, love and sex. A good man who was becoming increasingly difficult to find. A hard man, both for love and sex play a role, was even more difficult to find. I married him.I grew up in a society that stubboly held negative images of older people to love and sex. The idea of older people who still love to inspire reactions ranging from amusement to disgust. The idea of couples in their 80? s or 90? s with a sexual relationship remains inscrutable to all young people. Unfortunately, it is still one of the most unspeakable After this there too. Love is an experience that can be soft or strong, but not physically. And when it comes to all the physical characteristics, it is better under the cover and the conversation.I was a lack of role models for what I wanted. And I knew from my friends, I was not alone. Since our parents? Not generation? have our freedom and our point of view, could not? T-model our needs. Who did not? t discuss, love, sex and relationships. Travel and back, my friends and I forged our confusion because the definition of "love and sexuality for adults. We've found that love didn? t always love and marriage, but sex was dynamite combination.Every six seconds, a man or a woman in the American love and sexual life after 50. There are nearly 60 million of us in our mid anni'50 over 100 There are the baby boomers, older, sexy and wise elderly. CrissCross us and belong to all spheres of human life. At no time during the course of history we have lived so long awaited and much of human relations. But when it comes to love and sex, which remain between dark gray and ages.Many of us lost souls, in an aging society, which still venerates the Pepsi generation bombarded with images of 20-bit, ultra-thin, with studs and Pecs beauty, that we no longer work with. The young people remind us, in their dances, that sex is "dirty"? Glowing and grinding. Can we have our moments, but it is a sweet, loving, caring and loving sexuality of our times. Viagra can not be the only answer. We are not older than our parents, and many of us are not willing to just old, to be useless, and will be on pasture until die.The truth is subtly and slowly dawns that life in our society today , a new age. Love can be better with time, the magic and the edges wo smooth, or as the song says, a second or even third round. Half a century is not very old. How hard button sexuality is decreasing, we have the opportunity to enjoy sensuality? s profits. Instead of retiring to think that we should lea refirement. Let us live as we came to be: loving, sexy, sexual ways. Happy Valentine to all who have reached a century and a half, and for all of you who has the good fortune to achieve. Life is too difficult to do alone, Dr. D. Lynn Dorree, Ph.D. The author Dorree Dr. Lynn is co-founder of the Institute of Advanced Studies of Psychotherapy and a practicing physician in New York and Washington, DC. Dr. Lynn served on the Board of the American Academy of Psychotherapists and she is in the drafting of the publication of the votes. It 'also a regular columnist for the Washington, DC newspaper, The Georgetown. Dr. Lynn is a popular and well known speaker on the lecture circuit.